Maybe there are women out there who would be happy to just have fun in their 40s even if it means they'll enter their 50s without a husband. Maybe some women would be perfectly content to be in their 50s and single. Location: Tennessee bound Originally Posted by sebbachlvr4u. Male Chauvinist Pig means-a male who patronizes, disparages, or otherwise denigrates females in the belief that they are inferior to males and thus deserving of less than equal treatment or benefit She is old, rich, and looking for a crazy night of sex with a guy who can go all night long without Viagra.
Hope this isn't copyrighted, this is the stereotypical idea of a cougar. Last edited by virgode; at PM.. Reason: addition. Location: Beautiful Pelham Pkwy da Bronx.
I am almost choking on my popcorn. Society continues to put labels on what women desire, whether referring to older or younger partners. But, ultimately, women continue to push back on old taboos and seek out the romantic partners of whatever age they want. Actively scan device characteristics for identification. Use precise geolocation data. Select personalised content. Create a personalised content profile. Measure ad performance. Select basic ads. Create a personalised ads profile.
Thus, in both marriages and nonpermanent relationships, the trend is that men are typically older than their female counterparts. Though women are sometimes younger than their partners—entering "cougar" territory—, it is more likely that they will be involved with a younger man in a nonpermanent relationship, rather than a marriage.
Alarie proposes that negative reactions to cougar relationships are so strong because they violate long-standing social norms. For example, there is an assumption in Western culture that men value youth and beauty in a partner, while women value financial stability.
Men are also understood to have stronger sex drives than women and are expected to make the first contact, while women are encouraged to wait passively for men to choose them. Finally, there's the idea that older women are expected to be asexual.
Cougar behavior turns all of these norms on their heads. In Alarie's qualitative study of 59 women who had participated in cougar relationships, results showed that women had different experiences of social norms depending on their age. For example, older women were less likely to be affected by the social discourse about cougar relationships, were less preoccupied than younger women were about how long the relationship would last, and were less worried about whether they would miss out on having children or losing their partners as they continued to age.
The meaning of the term "cougar" seems to vary with the speaker. On the positive side, cougars are associated with gender equality, an outgrowth of the sexual revolution, and the availability of reliable contraceptives, which have given women more freedom when choosing a partner. They are also an explicit reflection that sexuality is not necessarily connected with childbearing.
Moreover, an increase in status, education, and income means that a woman can establish herself as the more powerful party in a relationship should an unequal power dynamic be desired by both partners.
However, there is a considerable negative undertone prevalent in the media, particularly on internet sites such as askmen. Cougars are seen as predators of unwary men or victims of the cultural imperative to find value in their physical appearance. There are many reasons why women might choose to enter into relationships that give them the "cougar" label. She may be less likely to have to eventually support her spouse physically or emotionally in their final years as his health declines, but would rather be cared for herself.
Women still do live longer than men, so it may be a rational choice to select a younger partner. Women also say that younger men appreciate their financial independence, their interest in sex, and their freedom from stereotypes. To learn more about the cookies we use, check out our Cookies policy. Share your opinion and get rewarded just like happydaze.
Sign up to start earning now! Feline Scale Based on a woman's age, this scale classifies women who prey on younger men for their sexual appetite as felines.
Not sure who came up with this! I'm not sure I like it though. Or the age that the guy is, that is getting stalked by said felines?
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